I’ve made the decision to change up the newsletter. Starting today, I will be writing about things I think about and want to share. Some of the subjects may be controversial, some may be deeper in understanding. What I have been experiencing over the last few months especially is that it’s time for me to step out further into my truth.
This is requiring me to find my voice, speak up, even if I get nervous and scared. Sometimes my body may try to tell me to be quiet by expressing anxiety and nervousness. I am going to step into my light regardless.
So, with this in mind, I want to give each you permission to unsubscribe at any time. My thoughts, feelings and ideas aren’t for everyone and that is okay. I have needed to come to peace with this before claiming more of my light and the nudge to speak up.
What is happening in the collective and in the United States is a cacophony of energy coming to the surface. I’ve struggled over the past year whether to write about these events and with this change of focus I feel that it is the perfect time to share what I am seeing, sensing and feeling.
My hope is by sharing my thoughts, I can help others to be open to other ways to view their beliefs and opinions. Sometimes that slight change can make so much more sense and calm the nervous system. It may also help have this human experience be not quite so difficult and challenging.
The Patriarchy is being dismantled and the Matriarchy is coming forward
Some basic information to further understand my current thinking. This is an overview of my understanding. It’s not that I’m right or wrong, it is what I see currently. You may see it differently and that is okay too.
The Patriarchy is being destroyed and the Matriarchy is coming forward and being created.
To better understand the patriarchy, one needs to know this is not against males, it is about a system that was set up for male dominance and authority over females and males not complying. It has run it’s course and is no longer able to be energetically supported, this is part of the evolution of mankind and the Universe/Planets. While it will take time to completely move into the Matriarchy it has begun.
Patriarchy has the need to keep things confined. I explain to people in the sense when a baby is born, they are defined male or female by their g*nitalia (you may find me changing some words so they don’t get caught in the email dungeon). If it’s a male, the information is basically allow the baby to have feelings and emotions, crying when needed, until around the age of 3 or so and then after that the boy needs to “man up” and stop the crying and get tough. Males are told to stuff their feelings, except for anger and frustration. They are also told to “not be a girl”, don’t be a sissy, you can’t play with that, that is a girls toy. How does a male learn tenderness, nurturing if they are not allowed to experience these things at a young age? If a male shows feminine tendencies, in many places, it’s considered a threat to their manhood, and the adult males that are around. This and so much more is getting brought up to the surface to heal. Recently, I became aware there is little definition of what it means to be a man/male/boy, it’s basically, just don’t be a girl.
On the female side, the baby is told to be a “good girl”, act appropriate, take care of babies, the house, learn how to cook, clean, nurture and also hold onto all the feelings the males are not allowed to feel. The females are also to be quiet and not speak up. They are to be of service and if they can’t be of service, there is something wrong with them. They are expected to be more than capable to handle anything and everything.
Many females are “waking up” and are no longer willing to be under the “good girl program”. Many females though will not acknowledge the need to make a change. There is fear and a desire to fit in. Nothing “wrong” with either way, I understand both ways of thinking. Organically these changes are happening. Most people don’t even realize they are evolving, they just find themselves no longer thinking a certain way. There are beliefs that are no longer supported and new beliefs are coming forward.
I’m seeing on social media such confusion from many males, trying to figure out what is happening. Feeling threatened and fearful. So understandable when one believes they are losing a “power-over” feeling. While it may feel like this, what is desiring to come forward is the ability to be able to not be so “contained” in being male. Imagine no longer having to be aware if one “acts” feminine, has emotions, cries, or the need to be “one of the boys”.
All of us are changing and evolving whether we consciously know it or not.
One final thought on this subject.
When the Twin Cities were the major focus in January/February of social media, I could see the energy of the Patriarchy and Matriarchy coming forward. The unhealthy wounded masculine energy of over-powering, a desperate need for control, emotional repression, and aggression, often stemming from fear, insecurity, and a need for dominance. It manifests as hyper-competitiveness, cold detachment, excessive intellectualizing, and the belief that vulnerability is weakness.
Then the Matriarchy started coming together. I saw and heard there were groups of people gathering together, creating support systems. It wasn’t just one leader, it was a group of people. They created places for food and groceries to be gathered, ways to support neighbors, it was a gathering of individuals that cared for their fellow human, regardless of skin color, nationality, language and so on. They also made sure those that were taken into custody for whatever reason, were greeted when they were released. These individuals made sure they had a burner phone, blankets, transportation and support. It is the nurturing and communal leadership that we are moving into.
